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How Much Do You Really Want To Succeed?

Posted In: Thoughts March 14, 2008

I heard this story told to me a while ago, and I thought I would share it with you all. It really made me think about how much I really wanted certain things and what my priorities are in life.

The story goes:

A man came to Socrates and asked him for wisdom. Socrates quickly dismissed him, telling him to come back when he really wanted wisdom. This experience repeated itself several times, with the man coming back and asking for wisdom, until Socrates took the man down to a body of water and stuck his head under the water.

After holding him under for about 10 seconds Socrates pulls the man back up and asks ‘What do you want?’ To which the man replied, ‘ I want wisdom great teacher.’ Socrates put the mans head under the water again, this time holding him under for 30 seconds. Pulling the man up he asks again, ‘What is it that you want?’ The man once again replies, ‘I want wisdom great teacher.’ Socrates holds him under the water again this time for much longer.

The man began struggling, and choking, and gasping for air. At the point that he was about to fall unconscious, Socrates pulled him out of the water and asks one final time, ‘What is it that you want?’ This time all the man can scream is, ‘I want air, I want air!’ Socrates leaves the man saying, “when you want wisdom as much as you wanted air, you will find it.”

Now would be a great time to stop and think about whether we are that desperate for the things we want? I hear so many bloggers saying how much the want to be successful through blogging, to be successful through internet marketing or affiliate marketing - but can’t seem to work out how.

It makes me question - How much do they really want it? How much do YOU want to succeed?



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16 comments...What do you think?

  1. Posted by SEO 14th March, 2008 at 10:17 pm

    To be really happy you either need to achieve your goals or lower your expectations.

    SEO’s last blog post..Where to start? SEO basics.

  2. Posted by Adam 14th March, 2008 at 11:16 pm

    For most bloggers achieving success is about making money, not actually being a good blogger. And I would say the majority don’t truly want to be good successful bloggers they want a quick buck which is the reason why most fail. They are striving for the wrong goal. First you have to be a good blogger and when you succeed at that your money will come.

    Adam’s last blog post..An Arbitrary Logo and Name

  3. Posted by Bob Younce 14th March, 2008 at 11:32 pm

    You’re spot on here, Thomas. Desire alone won’t guarantee success, but if you don’t have that desire you can almost guarantee failure.

    Good form!

    Bob Younce’s last blog post..Why Great Writing Does Matter Online

  4. Posted by arham | blogpreneur 15th March, 2008 at 12:55 am

    success ?… I don’t take too much of care I much digits can I reach. but the vital is how much can I thank for goodness to my God :-)
    arham | blogpreneur’s last blog post..Hey, my RevResponse is accepted, Do you know Revresponse

  5. Posted by Alex at Net-Eentrepreneur.com 15th March, 2008 at 8:20 am

    Great story, Thomas.

    It really got me thinking.. it appears that I want to succeed but, never really going out of my skin.

    Some changes are going to happen. Thanks to you.

    Cheers,
    Alex

    Alex at Net-Eentrepreneur.com’s last blog post..Another Great Marketing Idea

  6. Posted by Homebizseo.com 17th March, 2008 at 2:17 pm

    Great story we to have the desire to be the best.

  7. Posted by Jason 18th March, 2008 at 2:12 am

    If I hadn’t had to do a 1,500 word essay on Socrates yesterday, I would have said that is top notch information…

    Seriously though, great story, keep up the good work :)

  8. Posted by Mark Wilson 24th March, 2008 at 5:38 pm

    I know that when I started on the internet all I wanted was a quick buck. I have now realized that I will get more in the end if I don’t go straight for the quick buck but rather create quality posts that appeal to my readers. Great post.

    Got to love Socrates.

    Mark Wilson’s last blog post..I’m better than 75% of blogs already

  9. Posted by Curt 25th March, 2008 at 8:23 pm

    I know one thing for sure, if you’re going to succeed and actually make a living at blogging, you really have to want it!

    It’s a lot of work. You need to be aggressively taking advantage of all the different ways to promote and gain traffic.

    Curt’s last blog post..Doing Daily Backups? I Hope So!

  10. Posted by vhxn.com 26th March, 2008 at 2:32 am

    The success in blogging itself will make you earn money.

    vhxn.com’s last blog post..Lamborghini Bello Headset!

  11. Posted by Chris A of CMAQUEST 28th March, 2008 at 5:43 pm

    Great excerpt from Socrates life….
    ..and can be also applied to blogging.

    I was once like that as I start blogging but as time passed… created numerous mistakes and flaws, I have learned that you can’t rush success… Blog like you are just breathing it and a part of your life…

    Chris A of CMAQUEST’s last blog post..Hilarious Audition from Bulgaria’s Music Idol

  12. Posted by Wendy 11th April, 2008 at 5:05 am

    hello!!!
    I think its true success is not all of achieving a monetary reward

  13. Posted by shy guy 17th April, 2008 at 10:26 pm

    Succes when I’ve married and become a father…
    Huhuhuhu

    shy guy’s last blog post..Vertical Ad Network Get More Money

  14. Posted by Online Business Networking 18th April, 2008 at 8:23 am

    I love all types of philosophical stories… they always teach you valuable lessons and such. It really does show that many people may say that they want something badly, but they don’t really need it.

  15. Posted by Jagdu 20th April, 2008 at 8:20 am

    Good point. I think it is also a great lesson in perseverance. The man faulted when it got too hard for him.

    Jagdu’s last blog post..Fresno Golf Vacations

  16. Posted by paulette 3rd June, 2008 at 2:08 am

    Vision is important to succeed. Keep focus.

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